"I Can Love You Like That"... - 45 (Waxahachie)
Date: 2009-08-21, 10:14AM CDT
Ever heard the lyrics to this beautiful love song? They are very passionate, sexy, and sweet. Some say that it's only a dream, but I am a dreamer... I believe dreams do come true. I have hope and faith that mine will. I have my own home, a job, and a beautiful family. They are grown and on their own. What I don't have, but definately want, is the right man to share the most beautiful, sweet, and passionate romance with that lasts a lifetime. My very best friend, lover, and true confidant. If you share these hopes, then I will be glad to hear from you. If you're playing games, not serious or real, looking for casual sex, FWB, NSA, hookups, discreet relationships, to cheat on your mate, can't or won't commit, don't have time for a relationship, then I am not the lady for you. Please, let's not waste each others' time. Life is too short for that, and if any of these things are the case, then I won't give you the time of day. I know what I want, and I won't settle for anything less. So, be sure of yourself and what you want before you respond. I realize that my post is rather lengthy, but well worth the read to the right man. You may say that I'm picky. Well, I am. While I realize that it may be impossible to find everything that we're looking for in a mate, I believe that if you're clear about what you want and what you don't want, then you can come pretty close. I am not perfect, no one is. Perfection isn't what I'm looking for, but I feel that there is someone that is perfect for me, and me for him.
Why is it so hard to find a good, quality man? I know that there are some out there, but where? I am hoping to find my very best friend, soulmate, lifelong companion, and the "love of my life". I'm in search of someone that is honest, loyal, devoted, intelligent, kind, caring, compassionate, romantic, and passionate. A man with a good heart that is loving and sweet. One that is not afraid to make a commitment. A strong and confident man.
Occasional, social drinking is fine, as long as you don't have a problem with alcohol. Absolutely no drugs! No angry, violent men! No mental or control issues. No games/players. No couch potatoes. Not that I don't enjoy watching television from time to time, but I like to get out once in a while and enjoy life... have fun.
I prefer a man from 40 up to about 50, that is not overweight, has a great sense of humor, and knows what's important in life. One of those very important things is how he should treat his lady...how to appreciate and respect her. If a man knows how to treat his woman and love her in every aspect, then just think of all the benefits he has in store. If she's feeling it, then she can't help but to give him all that he wants and needs, and make him the best loved man in the world. It's a win, win situation. One hand washes the other, so to speak.
He doesn't have to be gq, but he should be handsome, after all, we should be physically attracted to each other. I prefer someone taller than myself, because sometimes I do wear heels, and I wouldn't want to tower over him. Being able to communicate with each other is utterly important, and trust is absolutely monumental. I want a gentleman, a man that is all "good", but can be a little "bad" when the timing is right. I want a real man, a great lover... all of this and more to be "the man of my dreams".
I want the "fairytale" romance... a sweet, beautiful love affair to last a lifetime with my very best friend. I'm worth it and I deserve it. I believe that two people who are compatible and have the same aspirations can make this lovely dream a reality.
I want peace of mind, contentment, happiness, and the security of knowing that you know, that we have something special and unique. Something that everyone hopes for, but not all have found, to prove that it can be done. It can.
...and it goes on....
I want a man with virtue and integrity, and that keeps his word. A man is only as good as his word, and a woman too, for that matter. I want it all, is that too much to ask for? Not in my opinion. I believe in love, and I don't believe it's as hard as so many make it out to be. Sure, you have to work on it, nurture it... but isn't that what it's all about? Anything worth having is worth the time and effort you put into it. It's like putting daily deposits into your savings account, and before you know it, you have so much that you can never possibly use it up in a life time. A lifetime of love and happiness. Love is worth it, it's the greatest gift of all. That's the good stuff.
About me, I stand between 5'7"-5'8", weigh in the mid 130's, have beautiful, green eyes, lovely, long, brunette hair, nice, full lips, and a sweet, pretty smile. I am a very pretty lady. I am not haughty or conceited, but I would say that my self esteem is pretty healthy. I don't need other peoples' opinions to make me feel validated. I know my self worth... my inner and outer beauty.
I enjoy reading, antiques, music (most kinds), dancing, movies, flea markets, yard sales, outdoor festivals, art, gardening, fishing, amusement parks, museums, an occasional night out, etc. I'm pretty easy going, intelligent, and I love to laugh. I am warm, friendly, sweet, loving and kind. I am the real deal, and I have a good heart. I am honest, faithful and loyal.
I'm 45 and very proud to say that I look very youthful for that age. I am not your typical looking mother of three grown children, and nanna of two grandsons. In fact, most people say that my children and I look like siblings. I adore my children and my grandsons...THEY ARE THE WORLD TO ME. I have pets and I love animals, the outdoors, and all of creation.
No, I am not perfect, but I do take care of myself, and know what's really important in life. We all have ups and downs, and sometimes things are tough, and I am no exception. We have to live, and hopefully, learn how to deal with lifes issues. That's all we can do. Life has it's share of mountains and valleys, it just makes it more worth it if you have that certain, special someone to share it with.
I believe in God, I believe in family, I believe in America, I believe in love, and I believe in myself. Is there someone out there that I can believe in? Do you want someone to believe in you?
Please, no married men, men with boyfriends, men with girlfriends. No three ways, no four ways, or any kind of other way. Just one man and one woman, that's what I'm all about. I'm monogamous ONLY, and I expect that in return. No exceptions. I want long term, committed, and someday, possibly marriage. Yes, I do want marriage again. This time, forever. I'm worth it, and so are you, if that's what you're looking for.
Life is too short, we're not promised tomorrow, so we should all have what our heart desires. I'm not looking for perfection... only the man that's perfect for me. I know you're out there... somewhere, and I hope we find each other.
Please respond if you share the same hopes and dreams, but if you're not serious or sincere, well, you'll have to look elsewhere. If you are interested, have something to say... tell me all about yourself. Let's chat for a while, talk on the phone, get to know each other, see if we have our own unique chemistry... and meet. Give it some thought, have a nice day, and I hope to hear from you.
P.S. I am very serious and sincere in who I say that I am and in what I hope to find, and in whom I'm looking for. You should be the same. Please, no one or two liners. If you're looking to cheat on your wife or girfriend, then I'm definately not the girl for you. I don't like it, don't believe in it, and will not be a part of it. I want someone that will be mine, and mine alone.
Thanks and have a nice day.
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